Waimea Plantation Cottages Wedding | Kauai, Hawaii | Alyssa & Johann

Alyssa and Johann are not only two of the kindest, most beautiful (inside and out) people I’ve ever met, but they alsooo happen to be family! Alyssa is Ben’s cousin, which means she’ll officially be my family when I marry Ben in May, so when they asked me to shoot their wedding I screamed like a banshee, and then when they told me it was going to be on Kauai, I lost my mind.

Getting this wedding to happen, however, was quite the challenge. From venue cancellations, travel restrictions, last minute guest cancellations, etc etc etc, Alyssa and Johann had to weather quite the storm to bring this beautiful day to fruition - but they did it!

Being able to capture a day that was years in the making for some of my favorite people ever in one of the most beautiful places on earth was surreal. The Waimea Plantation Cottages on Kauai served as the perfect backdrop for this wedding, and the florals by Caleb Franklin (which he foraged 100% of) were breathtaking, and Meghan Daul made Alyssa look absolutely stunning!

Enjoy!

Photography: Valerie Lendvay @valerielendvay

Venue: Waimea Plantation Cottages @waimeaplantationcottages

Florals: C Franklin Design @cfranklindesign

Hair/MUA: Meghan Daul @kauaiweddinghair

Artistic Sunset Cliffs Elopement | Kristen & Dylan | Sunset Cliffs, San Diego, CA

Kristen reached out to me after being referred to me by my best friend, who is also her coworker (thanks Tara!). When she told me about the vision she and Dylan had for their elopement, I about lost my mind with excitement.

We started the day at Flying Panther Tattoo in the Golden Hill neighborhood of San Diego, California, where Kristen and Dylan each got tattoos to memorialize the day - it was also Dylan’s first tattoo! After they wrapped up, we headed to their AirBnB in Point Loma, where they both got ready and had their first look, and then headed to Sunset Cliffs for their ceremony with 3 of their closest friends.

We had such an incredible time drinking champagne, giggling, and scaling cliffs! Enjoy!

San Diego Zoo Wedding - San Diego, CA - Erika & Jason

Erika and Jason’s San Diego Zoo wedding was definitely one of my favorites of 2019! (I know, I’m posting late again. Sue me. Or don’t. Yeah, don’t please).

From the moment their inquiry made it’s way into my inbox, I couldn’t wait for their wedding day. My boyfriend Ben and I are San Diego Zoo fanatics and love visiting whenever we can (writing this is reminding me to renew our memberships, too), so when I saw that Erika and Jason were getting married at this sacred oasis disguised as a tourist attraction, I immediately replied with a “YAAAAAS!”.

Not only do these two have amazing taste in wedding venues, but they are also just genuinely amazing people. Erika and I met up before the wedding to do a venue walk through (aka us drinking Micheladas and taking a bus tour at 11am on a Tuesday, it’s fine), and we quickly became BFFs - screeching in unison about cute animals and our mutual love of sloths.

Jason and Erika were not only incredibly gracious and thankful to every amazing vendor working on their day, but they were so present with each other and their loved ones, which is the most important thing. From their first look atop a koi pond to their ceremony overlooking all of Balboa Park, followed by meeting some of the cutest animals I’ve ever seen (yes, we met a sloth, I still haven’t recovered from how cute she was), their day was nothing short of magical.

Vendors

Photography: Valerie Lendvay Photo www.valerielendvayphoto.com

Venue: San Diego Zoo https://weddings.sandiegozoo.org/

Coordination: VIP Events & Weddings https://vipeventsandweddings.com/

Florals: Tustin Florist http://tustinflorist.com/

Hair: Styled by Stephanie Wirkus https://www.stephaniewirkus.com/

MUA: Taylor Haupt Make Up https://taylorhauptmakeup.com/

Video: Jimmy Cheng http://www.jimmychengphotography.com/

DJ: Vox DJs https://voxdjs.com/

Cake/Desserts: Jenny Wenny Cakes https://jennywennycakes.com/

Yosemite Engagement Session - Yosemite National Park, California - Casey & Mikey

There really aren’t enough words in the English language to properly describe how I feel about this couple and Yosemite. But I’ll give it a shot because… well this is a blog and that’s the point of a blog.

Casey and I grew up together - she was my next door neighbor growing up, and one of the only other girls in a cul-de-sac full of boys, so we not only bonded out of friendship, but survival - our brothers were always finding new ways to torment us hahaha. When I saw Casey’s name under my “New Inquiries” tab, I was so happy - we hadn’t seen each other in years, so I immediately called her and we set up a double date at Carruth Cellars in Little Italy, San Diego (if you haven’t gone, you need to!). We split a bottle of wine (ok, 3, whatever) and did a quick recap of the last 10 years of our lives, and talked everything wedding - this is when I learned about their proposal story. I truly can’t do the story justice by retelling it, so here’s the video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9aiDRS-ErTI&feature=youtu.be&app=desktop

After watching this, I was a blubbering mess, obviously. THEN! Then these two dropped another bomb on me: THEY WANTED TO DO THEIR ENGAGEMENT SHOOT IN YOSEMITE. I immediately said “YES, DUH”, especially because neither Ben or myself had ever been, and we got to planning.

We decided on meeting in Yosemite - Ben and I rented an SUV for the trek (my little car is too delicate for such an adventure hahaha), and we made the 7 hour journey, leaving San Diego at 5 AM. We met in Yosemite around 1 PM, and found our campsite and tent/cabin at Curry Village. A few hours after we arrived, ate, and got settled, we started our sunset shoot at Glacier Point! After the shoot, we got back to the cabin, ate some dinner, opened a bottle of wine, and Casey and Mikey let Ben and I ask them about their craziest work stories for at least 2 hours before we finally fell asleep.

The next morning, we woke up before sunrise (it was so cold omg) and headed to a much emptier Glacier Point again to get some incredible sunrise photos. We spent the better part of the day driving around, finding cool spots, and taking tonsss of photos before heading back to San Diego around 3.

I cannot wait for their wedding this spring, and I hope you guys enjoy the photos as much as I enjoyed taking them <3

Coronado Beach Engagement Session - Coronado, California - Anna & Mason

Anna and Mason stole my heart from the moment we met! Anna looked like she walked out of a Lana Del Rey music video, so as a psycho fan of Lana, I had to draw inspiration from her music videos for this shoot haha. We ran along sand dunes, played in the water, rolled in the sand next to the Hotel Del Coronado, and were exhausted by the end because walking in sand for an hour really gets your glutes. Hereeee are the photos from the day, enjoy!

East Village, San Diego Engagement Session - San Diego, California - Hannah & Kevin

There aren’t enough words to describe how great Kevin and Hannah are - they’re one of those couples that, from the moment you meet them, you see how genuine they are and how much they love and respect each other.

I’ve known Kevin and his family for years (we went to high school together!), and after meeting Hannah a few years ago, we immediately clicked. She’s also an artist, and an extremely talented one at that (www.hannahjaneart.bigcartel.com), so becoming friends with her was a given.

When Hannah reached out to me to shoot their wedding, I was beyond excited - knowing that the day would be filled with their love, people we all love, and Hannah’s artistic vision being a driving force in the decor and look of the day made saying “DUH I’LL BE THERE” one of the easiest decisions I’ve ever made!

For their engagement shoot, we met up in the East Village district of downtown San Diego, had some beers, and walked around chasing the sun until it set!

New York City Engagement Session - New York, New York - Bailey & John

Bailey and John were the winners of a giveaway on Instagram I held for an engagement or anniversary session in New York City, and once we connected I KNEW that we were going to become friends. We spent weeks planning an epic shoot all over Manhattan, and when the day arrived we were completely surprised by SNOW!

Being a native San Diegan, I’ve never seen snow fall before, so seeing it fall for this first time in New York City while doing what I love with an amazing couple was something I’ll never forget. We started at the Top of the Rock, and while we were hoping to get an epic view of the city, the snow caused a white out since we were so high up! Bailey and John still rocked that part of the shoot, going out in the FREEEEZING cold snow to dance and cuddle while I snapped their photos (we only spent about 1 minute out there because it was so cold)!

Next, we went to Grand Central Station! We had a super specific photo in mind that we wanted to capture (the one in Grand Central Station where everyone around them is blurry in motion, and they’re standing still), and we did it! We spent some more time getting some dancing pictures and maneuvering through the crowds, and ended right around the time the station started to get packed with people.

I am so lucky to be able to capture such special moments with the most incredible couples in the most beautiful locations around the world. New York, I’ll be back so soon!

South Lake Tahoe Elopement - South Lake Tahoe, CA - Travis & Allison

Allison and Travis… I can’t say enough good things about these two. There’s really just not enough room on a page to write it all out! So, I decided to switch it up! Normally, I write about wedding days from my perspective, but I thought that interviewing Allison and Travis all about their day would not only be fun, but helpful for couples looking for advice! Enjoy!

Valerie: What were your top 3 moments of the day? 


Allison:

1. Our first look! Valerie suggested from the start that we consider an intimate first look that would allow us quick moment to see each other for the first time alone and get excited for the rest of the day. It is by far one of the best pieces of advice she gave us and some of our favorite photographs of the day are from the first look.

2. The ceremony! We chose to have a small private, ceremony with immediate family and a few close friends. While some were not thrilled with this decision we were happy that we stayed true to what we wanted. It was such a special moment with some of those closest to us that we will always be a treasured memory.

3. All the little moments with everyone who showed up for us. The reception didn’t last nearly long enough but every second was filled with love, laughter and light. From the pizza, beer and speeches all the way to bustin’ moves on the dance floor. It’s truly indescribable to be surrounded by people from so many different phases of your life that all just want to come together and celebrate you. Watching those we love connect with each other, share memories of us over the years and bond was something I’m not sure we will ever experience at this capacity again. Valerie is a serious magician and was able to capture so many of these moments amazingly.


Travis: The top moment of the day would have to be the first look for me. Waiting to see my wife in her dress all done up was nerve racking but so worth it. Second top moment would be the ceremony itself, theres nothing better than getting to share the moment with your closest friends and family. Third top moment would be dinner, because getting to look out from our table and see all of our loved ones sharing a meal together was a special moment that only happens once!


Valerie: What is some advice you have for newly engaged couples planning their wedding? 


Allison: Enjoy the journey! Planning had many moments that could have become overwhelmingly stressful if we had allowed them to. We tried our best to take it day by day and started with booking the vendors we felt were most important to create the celebration of our dreams! I absolutely love planning, am very organized and had a specific vision when it came to decor and overall feel so opted out of hiring a wedding planner. But if planning a wedding isn’t your thing, HIRE SOMEONE! They are worth every penny when it comes to coordinating, details and contacts. But also, remember that less is more and you don’t need every bell and whistle to make your day perfect. It’s more about the people who come to join you and your love on your big day.


Travis: My advice to engaged couples planning a wedding is make sure you let your soon to be wife plan it and do whatever she tells or asks you to do!

Valerie: What’s one part of planning the wedding that you didn’t love all that much?


Allison & Travis: Planning from afar! As dreamy as a destination wedding sounded at the start, it was tough to plan such an important life event from so far away. We made as many trips as possible during the year leading up to our big day but life is busy as we all know! Some details were incredibly challenging to finalize from so far away which made for a bit of unnecessary stress. If you are planning a destination wedding, I would highly recommend going with an all inclusive venue that organizes almost everything for you OR hiring a wedding planner (: It’ll be worth the peace of mind!

Valerie: What was your favorite part of planning the wedding? 


Allison & Travis: Choosing all our dream vendors! We had an absolute blast checking out alllllllll the local companies and picking the ones that seemed to best fit with our vibe. From the start when we chose to have a destination wedding in a small mountain town, we knew we wanted to support as many small businesses as possible. The friendships we created and extra love we received with every tiny detail was so incredibly rewarding. Valerie was actually the first vendor we booked and also the one we have become closest to. We had so much fun with her during our amazing Laguna Beach engagement shoot, we instantly knew she had to be a part of our day in Lake Tahoe. She is both professional yet so incredibly genuine that you know she truly cares and will doing everything necessary to capture your essence as a couple. We have friends for life through all the amazing vendors!

Vendor List:

Photography- Valerie Lendvay Photo (you’re on my site!) @valerielendvayphoto

Venue- South of North Brewing https://www.southofnorthbeer.com @southofnorthbrewing

Food- Basecamp Pizza https://basecamppizzaco.com @basecamppizzacompany

Desserts- Crazy Good Bakery https://crazygoodbakery.com @crazygoodbakeryandcafe

Flowers- Fresh Ideas Flower Co. https://freshideasmodesto.com @freshideasflowerco

Bouquets- Enchanted Florist https://southlaketahoeenchantedflorist.com @enchantedfloristlaketahoe

Rentals- Elevated Events https://www.tahoeelevatedevents.com @tahoeelevatedevents

Dress- Grace Loves Lace https://graceloveslace.com @grace_loves_lace

Music- DJ Pastor Ryan IG —> @djpastorryan

San Diego Elopement - San Diego, CA - Phillip & Amanda

Amanda and Phillip’s elopement in Torrey Pines was stunning. Not only was the scenery gorgeous, but the love these two share is what really made this day incredible. We started at the cactus gardens in Balboa Park, and then made our way over to the Torrey Pines Glider Port for their ceremony. Phillip had already picked out a spot (that ended up being perfect and is exactly the spot I would have chosen - his new name is Philltography), so we hiked there and started the ceremony! After they read the vows they wrote for each other (I cried, duh) and had their first kiss, we hiked around some more and explored Torrey Pines while taking photos!

When Amanda first emailed me, she let me know that they were both unsure of the type of wedding they wanted to have. At first, they were thinking of a big, lavish wedding (Phillip even wanted to ride in on a horse), but they eventually changed their minds and as time went on, they realized that they wanted their wedding to be about them and what makes them happy. Their day ended up being so stress free for them both, and they also were able to leave the next day for their honeymoon without a hitch! Check out the photos of the best day ever below!

Vendors:

Photography: Valerie Lendvay Photo @valerielendvayphoto

Hair Colorist: Jezica Lybarger @jezicahdof

Officiant: Ceremonies by Lorraine

Florals: Native Poppy @native_poppy

5 Ways To Deal With A Creative Funk

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Are you feeling uninspired? Bored? Fresh out of ideas, all the time? Anxious about everything you create, and then depressed about the outcome?

Congrats, you’ve caught a Creative Funk. Good news though - it’s curable!

If you’re a creative like me, then you definitely know how crappy it can feel to be in a Creative Funk (or a funk of any kind). Feeling like your brain isn’t working the way you usually depend on it to is pretty unnerving, especially when you depend on your creativity for a livelihood.

I’ve put together a few of my favorite tips and tricks to help get you out of that spiral of self doubt, insecurity, and just plain old depression that the mysterious and frustrating Creative Funk brings along for the ride. Here’s what’s worked best for me:

1. Experiment with Different Mediums

This one has proven to be really helpful for me. As a photographer, I tend to stick to pretty close to my computer when it comes to being artistic. For months I had been focused on refining and perfecting my editing skills, but found myself constantly unhappy with the results. One day while in the middle of one of these editing dilemmas, I decided to shut my computer, pick up a sketchpad and some markers, and draw. I spent an entire weekend focused on a medium that, while comfortable with it (I was a drawing and painting major before switching to photography), was a needed change of pace. Experimenting with different colors, styles, etc., gave me a fresh set of eyes to look at my photography with, and gave my creativity the boost it didn’t know it needed.

2. Find New Surroundings

I am NOT good at going outside of my comfort zones. There’s nothing I love more than staying in, pouring a glass of Sauv Blanc (New Zealand ONLY), and watching a show I’ve already seen 40 times over. But does this fuel my creativity? No, not at all. There’s nothing new about this stimuli, so why would my brain react in a new way to something it’s been exposed to multiple times before?

Whenever I start to feel a little TOO comfortable in my routine, I make a point to switch it up. Going on a walk in an unfamiliar neighborhood, finding a new coffee shop to work in, going to an art show or a museum - the possibilities for this one are endless. The more new things you surround yourself with, the more opportunities you give your brain to blossom with fresh creativity and new ideas.

3. Don’t Stop Creating, Even If It Sucks

This one is one of the most important tips on this list, but also the one I have the most trouble following.

Think of your brain like any other muscle in your body. You rely on it to perform certain tasks, and after performing the same task over and over, it gets exhausted. If this were a muscle in your leg, would you keep performing that same task at the same intensity that caused the exhaustion? Of course you wouldn’t! You’d start with smaller exercises, slowly building up the strength again until you felt confident and strong enough to get back into your usual groove - give your brain that same courtesy.

My favorite way to go about this exercise is to look online or through my old notes from my college photography classes and find assignments to do. They can be as simple or complicated as you want, but the only goal is to create. You never know what fresh ideas will spark while you’re outside of your creative comfort zone!

4. Find A Workshop or Take A Class

Creative workshops and classes are never in short supply, especially with social media as a tool to connect so many creatives that would otherwise never know about each other. Not only will they help you meet new people in your area (or outside, depending on what kind of class/workshop you’re interested in!), but you never know what you’ll learn from just chatting with people.

My favorite way to find out about workshops is through Instagram (my feed is mainly photography workshops, of course, but there is no shortage of workshops for any creative field you can think of), and finding classes through Facebook events has been successful for me as well!

Extra tip: If you get nervous meeting new people/are shy, bring a friend along!

5. Let Yourself Rest

The creative industry is non-stop. No matter what kind of creator you are, we’ve all felt that overwhelming pressure to constantly create and produce original and captivating content almost daily. Sometimes, this is no problem at all - your brain is full of ideas and your hands seem to glide across the page or keyboard. Other times, though, no matter how hard you try, you’re a blank slate.

And that’s OK.

We aren’t robots! If you need a few days off from doing anything creative, take those days off. Sometimes this is impossible to do because of looming deadlines, but even just an hour a day of zoning out and watching a dumb TV show, reading a good book, or playing a video game can help recharge a tired creative mind.

I hope these tips helped you! Let me know if you have any other tips that work for you in the comments!

Sam & Chad // Cuddly In-Home Anniversary Session

I LOVEEE in home sessions. They’re so much fun, so much more intimate, and always let couples truly be themselves when I’m taking photos!

Sam and Chad were absolutely no exception to this! I’ve been friends with Sam for years, so when she contacted me and told me what kind of shoot she wanted, I was so excited. Once I arrived at their house, they had the cutest cheese plate out for us to take pictures with (and snack on!), a bottle of wine to share, and music playing!

The rest of the afternoon was a blast. Between dancing around their living room and getting a little tipsy from the wine, to getting cuddly in the bedroom, it couldn’t have gone better!

Rhys & Jayme // Gorgeous Surprise La Jolla Proposal

Meet Rhys and Jayme (and Rookie)!

When Rhys reached out to me and said that he wanted to surprise his long time girlfriend, Jayme, with a romantic surprise proposal, I just about jumped out of my chair and danced around with excitement; I LOVE PROPOSALS!

He had the entire thing planned: he and Jayme were going to walk along the beach, and I'd be snapping pictures from afar to capture one of the most special moments of their lives!

The entire evening went perfectly. Rhys and Jayme walked along the beach carrying some champagne and wine, and Rhys gave her a handwritten note for her to read. While she was reading, he got down on one knee, and... I'll let you see the rest for yourselves :)